I am sure you have met guys who weren’t all that in terms of good looks but who, nevertheless, manage to attract women in greater number than you thought possible. On the other hand, there are very physically attractive men who simply can’t get a woman to talk to them let alone to like them. Most of us resort to the misplaced mentality that these ‘ladies men’ are naturally attractive to women and that the rest of us simply don’t have what it takes to attract beautiful women.
If you are the kind of man who thinks that they do not have the necessary skills to attract women, have no fear; you are not alone. The truth of the matter is that most guys are not that good when it comes to attracting women. What’s more, its really not about being a good looking guy. It is about your personality, self belief and hard work. In fact, even the ‘Ladies men’ who seem to have it easy also put lots of time and effort into the process of attracting women. It is all about understanding the psychology of women; knowing what women want, what gets their heads turning. If you are a guy who has been having difficulty attracting women, these three tips are here to make it easier for you to attract and seduce women like a natural born pick up artist.
1. The Power of Charm
To be charming simply means to possess the ability to delight, please or enchant someone. The best thing is that everyone has the ability to charm. What makes the difference is the level to which you have awakened and exploited your ability to charm. Simply put, for you to attract a woman, you must be attractive as well; there are no two ways about it. Being charming is not a complicated thing either. Its all about being funny, being a gentleman (even bad boys have to be gentlemen at one point or another), being positive, being confident and being yourself without really caring what some other person thinks.
2. Brace yourself for Rejection
You have heard it said that in order to avoid disappointment, one should not set their hopes too high. Well, the same pretty much applies to guys looking to attract women. You must be ready to accept the fact that rejection is one of the possible outcomes of approaching women. That’s not enough though, you should also have the courage not to let that rejection get to your head. The point is, there are simply too many beautiful women out there for you to wallow over one girl. Once you accept that rejection is a possibility, the easier it will be for you to attract women. This is primarily because when you get rejected by one woman, instead of wasting your time brooding over it, you just move on to the next available girl that you find attractive.
3. Spend more time with more women
The funny thing about most men and especially those who complain about not being able to attract the women that they want is that they often expect to register success on the first attempt. This is a completely misplaced mentality to have; even Rome itself was never built in a day. The sad truth is that for some, finding the right woman only takes one attempt while for others it would take numerous attempts. The more women you approach and the more women you interact with, the easier it will be for you to find the woman that matches your needs and preferences and the better your chances of attracting her. After all, spending lots of time with beautiful women is proof enough that you can get a beautiful woman to fall for you. It is all a matter of increasing your odds.