How to approach a woman is something that has to be mastered if you want to learn how to pick up girls that you like. A large number of men apparently have a bit of trepidation when the time comes to talk to a girl. The main reason being that they don’t know when and how to approach women in a way that produces the desired results. So, what is the most effective way to approach girls?
To start with, you should approach a girl in a relaxed state of mind and body. You do not want to give the girl that you are approaching the opportunity to think for more than a few seconds. For that reason, hesitation will kill your game before you even start. Rather, you need to have the ability to see a woman, and straight up make your way to her. In addition, you want to be able to read a woman to ensure that you don’t approach her in the wrong moment. How do you read a girl?
You start by reading body language cues from the girl. You want to have the ability to determine if she is having one of those days when she would shut down any man no matter how skilful he may be as a seducer. If that is what it appears to be, then you may want to take a pass and simply move on. After all, why try so hard with one girl? Do you know the right way to read a girl’s body language?
Now, it’s not necessary to get too advanced about this. If the look on the girl’s face is jovial and she seems to be having fun and cheerful, then this is as good a moment as any. Walk over to her and initiate a chat as naturally as you possibly can. There’s no need to drop a line on her, just something to open the interaction smoothly will suffice. If you can make it relative to whatever she is doing or what is happening around you, the better.
This can make everything appear natural and not as if you are there trying to pick-up the girl. When you have approached the woman and started off a conversation, you should steadily get her attracted to you using the tried and tested tools of attraction. If you don’t know what these are then you need to get your hands on a copy of makewomenwantyou seduction system by Jason Capital or The Scrambler by Bobby Rio. A little bit of humour and pleasant chit chat can certainly do that. In essence, you don’t want to act like you are a man that is trying to pick up a woman. That is a big turn off for many women. Women want to be seduced but they want it to look natural and spontaneous.
When the woman starts to respond to you, ask a couple of open ended questions. Don’t be too eager to get her phone number. Just be steady and proceed slowly but surely. Having said that, avoid signs of desperation. Learn how to be calm and positive. If the woman is interested, she’s going to carry on chatting to you. Even when she doesn’t fully concur with your particular gist of conversation but on the other hand, she is laughing with a few sarcastic comments. That is a sign that you’ve hooked up with her. Collect the number or e mail then continue the seduction process another time.
Here is a good video by Bobby Rio on how to approach women: