How To Keep A Conversation Going With A Girl

.How to keep conversation going with a girlStarting a conversation and maintaining an engaging conversation are two different things. The starting part is really nothing more than getting a woman’s attention. Once most men realize this, starting conversations becomes easy. The hard part is keeping her attention.

In this post were going to be taking a look at 10 key factors that will help you maintain an engaging conversation with any woman you choose.

Talk With Energy:

Most men are so nervous that they mumble, talk in a low tone or too high pitch, and seem sad to be talking to her. Your aim should be to bring some energy to her life. The idea is to bring her up. Don’t be one of those guys who bring her down.

Don’t Dominate The Conversation:

Have you ever been in one of those conversations where the other person never seems to shut up? It makes it hard for you to voice your own thoughts. Doesn’t it? It almost makes you seem like you can’t get away from them because they never shut up! Watch her carefully to see if she has anything to say. Watch her carefully to see if she is bored or wants to get away. This helps keep the conversation open.

Ask Questions:

Open-ended questions work best. But you don’t always have to use open-ended questions. Sometimes just saying “really?” “what was that like?” will get her to give up more information.

Talk About What She Likes:

Everybody’s favourite topic is themselves. If you only talk about what interest you, then the conversation will only be about you. Talk about her first. When she is ready she will ask you plenty of questions about yourself with lots of interest on her part.

Get Her To Teach You:

When the conversation is on something you know nothing about don’t fake that you do know something. What you do is get her to teach you more about that topic. Ask questions, tell her to explain things, get her to demonstrate, and so forth.

Be Interesting:

This has as much to do with not being boring as it does as being interesting. The more you talk about her the more interesting you will be. The more you relate to her, the more you talk to her about her fantasizes, and the more you mix it up with some humor the better.

Use Your Body Language:

If you enjoy talking to her you can use your body language to encourage her to keep talking. Allot of guys now of days like to lean away from a woman. But..if you really enjoy talking to her leaning in a little bit after she has started talking will show her you like what you hear.

Adjust To The Environment:

Normal conversation is rarely good enough if you are at a party or club. You need some energy, humor, fun, and even be comfortable with your sexuality. If a girl is wearing something that reveals her boobs you might say..”If I didn’t know any better I would think that shirt was designed to get me to look at your boobs.” That sounds almost too forward, but when done correctly you will get a surprising response from her. This sort of thing can help initiate the flirting.

Enjoy Her, But Don’t Workshop Her:

One of the things you have to be careful with is trying to become too agreeable. This is when you start changing your opinions and values so that you can be more like her. Don’t be afraid to disagree. You just have to do it in the right way.

Challenge Her:

This shows a woman that you have some guts. If she is wearing big glasses that make her stand out you could say “I hate it when people wear certain things just to stand out.” See how she responds to that. There is nothing wrong with ruffling a few feathers and getting under skin. You can be certain that she will do it to you.
If you can integrate some of what is taught here you should be able to have more success with your conversations

How To Ask a Girl Out With Success

How To Ask a GirlAsking out a girl that you like can be terrifying to most guys. There are good ways and bad ways of doing it. I get a lot of emails from guys asking me: “How do you ask a girl out?” They want to know the specifics of what to do. In this article, we are going to be going over how to ask a girl out properly.
But before I do that I want to share with you what you should NOT do when asking out a girl that you like.

1. Don’t become too invested in asking out any one particular woman.

If you are a single guy it is acceptable to be talking to and flirting with multiple women. The most common thing I see with guys is that they spend months or even years fixating on that one special girl. Don’t do this. It may end up ruining your chances with her. If you are too emotionally invested in the whole situation when asking her out she will notice. Girls are well attuned to people’s feelings. She will see that you are very invested in this and it will put a lot of pressure on her. Girls don’t like pressure. They like to have a good time and things should be fun and flirtatious. You should give off the impression that you can take it or leave it.

2. Don’t be shy.

If you’re always shy around the girl that you like she will get the impression that you are always like this. And why wouldn’t she? She may not know you that well. Show her that you are fun to be around and if she goes on a date with you it will be fun and low pressure. Girls love a guy who is comfortable in his own skin and who likes to have fun. It is very attractive to them.

3. Don’t ask a girl out to a dinner and a movie.

This is one the other most common mistakes I see guys make. It’s a terrible idea from a lot of angles. For one, in a movie every attempt at physical escalation you make is magnified. You want physical escalation to be smooth and this is impossible when you are sitting next to her in a movie theater. If you want to know why physical escalation is important read my other articles but for now it has to do with staying out of the dreaded ‘friend zone’. I will be writing more about this. Another reason why this type of date is a bad idea is that it is very un-original and stereotypical. It is possibly the most common type of date idea out there. It puts you in the category of 20 other guys who have taken her on this kind of date, tried to get in her pants and failed. You don’t want to be in that category and this date idea puts you exactly in it.

4. Don’t ask a girl out to ‘do something, sometime’.

This is another bad idea. “Let’s do something sometime” is not very specific. It’s like some vague possibility sometime in the future. Instead, you want to be specific like ‘we will meet at this place and do this’. Girls can sometimes be very busy, especially hot girls. They get asked to social events all the time and they have very little spare time to ‘do something sometime.’ You must plan where you would like to take her and be specific when asking her out on a date.

5. Don’t wait till it’s too late.

Many guys wait for the perfect moment to ask a woman out. The problem with this is that there will probably never be a perfect moment and the next thing you know she is dating another guy. Women have a lot of options and they don’t wait around. If she is single and in dating or ‘meeting people’ mode you must pull the trigger early. Also if you and a girl have been flirting for a while or have known each other for some time then she may even be waiting for you to make a move. You may not realize it but if you fail to make that move she will actually loose attraction towards you. You must watch for signs that she is into you and take action or she will think you have no balls. It is better to ask her out too early and get rejected than ask too late. To learn more about the window of opportunity and why it is crucial watch this video.
Now that we have covered the things to avoid I will explain what you should do.

1. You must establish attraction first.

Have you ever heard the term ‘nice guys finish last’? There is some truth here. You may be the nicest guy but if she feels no attraction towards you, you will not get very far. In fact, you may even end up in the dreaded friend zone. What you must do is establish some attraction and watch for signs that she is at least a little into you. Not long ago I wrote a lengthily answer on Yahoo Answers that answers the question “How do you know if a girl likes you?“. I plan on writing other articles that teach guys specifically what to do to build attraction. For now you could tease her a little like she is your little sister. Don’t go overboard but you could basically treat her like she is being a brat. This works especially well on hot girls. The thing to remember is that attraction should come before rapport building. If a girl feels at least some attraction towards you she will tend to be a lot more compliant when it comes to asking her out. You should also realize that women make decisions based on emotions rather than logic. You may be a great guy for her but she must feel this on an emotional level. This is the role of building attraction.

2. Tell her about something you’re doing and invite her along.

This is a great idea for girls that you are already talking to or have known for a short time. You want to have something that you are already going to or doing and then ask her if she would like to come with you almost as an afterthought. The magic of this little technique is that if she turns you down it really does not matter because you were going to do this anyway. It’s not as if you made an elaborate date plan and she just told you to shove it. So in her eyes you actually don’t lose much value. It can be a little easier for you to ask the girl out this way because it’s casual and low pressure.

3. Ask her out on a high note.

This is an important one. A lot of guys ask a girl out randomly in a conversation or even worse when the conversation is dying out. It comes off a little weird. The best time to ask her out is when you are both having a good time. You should gauge her interest in you and pull the trigger on a high point. If she is talking a lot (investing into the conversation) or looking at you like she wants to rape you then these are positive signs. Girls can turn down a lot of guys for dates not because they don’t like them but because they’re asking them out on a date out of the blue. So be smooth and make sure you do it on a high note.
How to attract women easily

4. Get tickets to something interesting that you would both enjoy.

You could get 2 tickets to a comedy festival or something that you know she may enjoy. You could pretend that your friend bailed on you and you are looking for someone that you could take. Casually ask is she wants to come along. This takes a lot of the pressure off. It’s not as if you thought about specifically taking her on a romantic date. If she knew this to be true she may feel a little pressured or trapped, especially if she doesn’t know you very well yet or hasn’t developed any attraction for you.

5. Plan the date before asking her out.

If you know what you will be doing this will take some of the pressure off you. If you have a set plan it will eliminate some of the unknown. Guys get nervous because they don’t have a set plan of action. Also, a lot of guys make the mistake of asking the girl what she wants to do. Trust me, you don’t want to do this. Girls hate having to make decisions. They just want to have fun and be taken along for the ride. This is exactly what you should be doing. Planning something fun and taking the girl along with you for the ride. She will be happy that you did this. Here are some quick date ideas:
meet her at a chill lounge or bar near your home for a drink
jazz bar
take her to the beach
take her to some interesting place that you have been to before where you can lead her around and show her cool things
cooking class
live entertainment such as a band
take her out for a game of mini-golf
karaoke
a park where you talk and preferably food
Remember that you want to keep it casual and fun. Formal dates put too much pressure on the girl and don’t get you laid. Formal dates put you into the category of the guy that will wait 5 dates before you sleep with her.
Also you should aim to keep it simple. The idea is for you to be able to talk and where there could be some other interesting things like artwork or music. You want to avoid a date where you are going to a party with her and 5 of her friends.
When asking her out, suggest a time and day. If she says she is busy ask her specifically when she is free. You want her to be able to commit to this time. One thing to avoid is to keep suggesting different times if she is saying no to the ones you suggest. This is not a good idea because it builds what’s known as ‘negative compliance’. This is where the girl is getting used to having to say no to you.
How to ask a girl out

6. Be prepared for rejection.

If she turns you down don’t make it a big deal. You don’t really know what’s happening in her life. She may have someone that she is seeing, even casually or she may have just got out of a relationship. The fact is that it’s probably not you and there may be other things going on in her life. In the case that she says no, just change the topic of conversation and talk for a couple more minutes before leaving. You don’t want to make it seem like you were talking to her only to ask her out. Sometimes a ‘no’ could simply mean ‘not yet’. You should give her some space, talk to her some more and ask her out again another time. Remember, women like persistence.

7. Don’t get too excited if she does say yes.

Just be cool about it. You don’t want to seem like this was the first time that a girl has said yes to you. You want to make it seem like this is normal and happens to you all the time. Continue the conversation a little longer after she says yes.

Tips On How To Attract Women

How to attract women tipsI am sure you have met guys who weren’t all that in terms of good looks but who, nevertheless, manage to attract women in greater number than you thought possible. On the other hand, there are very physically attractive men who simply can’t get a woman to talk to them let alone to like them. Most of us resort to the misplaced mentality that these ‘ladies men’ are naturally attractive to women and that the rest of us simply don’t have what it takes to attract beautiful women.

If you are the kind of man who thinks that they do not have the necessary skills to attract women, have no fear; you are not alone. The truth of the matter is that most guys are not that good when it comes to attracting women. What’s more, its really not about being a good looking guy. It is about your personality, self belief and hard work. In fact, even the ‘Ladies men’ who seem to have it easy also put lots of time and effort into the process of attracting women. It is all about understanding the psychology of women; knowing what women want, what gets their heads turning. If you are a guy who has been having difficulty attracting women, these three tips are here to make it easier for you to attract and seduce women like a natural born pick up artist.

1. The Power of Charm

how to attract women naturallyTo be charming simply means to possess the ability to delight, please or enchant someone. The best thing is that everyone has the ability to charm. What makes the difference is the level to which you have awakened and exploited your ability to charm. Simply put, for you to attract a woman, you must be attractive as well; there are no two ways about it. Being charming is not a complicated thing either. Its all about being funny, being a gentleman (even bad boys have to be gentlemen at one point or another), being positive, being confident and being yourself without really caring what some other person thinks.

2. Brace yourself for Rejection


You have heard it said that in order to avoid disappointment, one should not set their hopes too high. Well, the same pretty much applies to guys looking to attract women. You must be ready to accept the fact that rejection is one of the possible outcomes of approaching women. That’s not enough though, you should also have the courage not to let that rejection get to your head. The point is, there are simply too many beautiful women out there for you to wallow over one girl. Once you accept that rejection is a possibility, the easier it will be for you to attract women. This is primarily because when you get rejected by one woman, instead of wasting your time brooding over it, you just move on to the next available girl that you find attractive.

3. Spend more time with more women


The funny thing about most men and especially those who complain about not being able to attract the women that they want is that they often expect to register success on the first attempt. This is a completely misplaced mentality to have; even Rome itself was never built in a day. The sad truth is that for some, finding the right woman only takes one attempt while for others it would take numerous attempts. The more women you approach and the more women you interact with, the easier it will be for you to find the woman that matches your needs and preferences and the better your chances of attracting her. After all, spending lots of time with beautiful women is proof enough that you can get a beautiful woman to fall for you. It is all a matter of increasing your odds.

How To Pick Up Girls In clubs

how to pick up girls in clubsDoes it take a genius to comprehend how to pick up girls in clubs? Fortunately, no. Sure, it might take a lot of balls and there’s a slight chance of ego-shattering rejection. But, it’s like what they say: There’s no such thing as ready – only willing. No one likes getting rejected, but it should be a risk you’re willing to take. Just think of it this way – even the most attractive guys strike out more times than they hit home runs.

So the first question is, why pick up in clubs? Here is a video from the great Tyler with some great insight on club game:

Now that we’ve looked at some introduction into club game, let’s give you a few tips on how to pick up girls in clubs. Is there actually a single best way to pick up girls in clubs? Not necessarily. However this post will give any novice a blue print that if followed correctly will lead to understanding how to pick up a girl at a bar or night club with ease. With that said, here are the basic steps to pick up a girl at a club:

1. Show Confidence when approaching girls in a night club.

You see this girl in a bar and she’s giving you all the right looks. How do you walk up to her and get her number? Definitely not with sweat dripping down your forehead! You might be inexperienced at this game, but keep in mind that she doesn’t have to know. Confidence is a big turn on. It doesn’t only show strength on your part, but willingness. Thus, the first step in understanding how to get girls in clubs is to learn to be confident in yourself and your abilities.

2. In order to pick up girls in a night club easily you need a game plan.

Have a game plan beforehand so you know what to say when you approach a girl in a club with the intention to pick her up. Think of a few icebreakers or openers to help you start an interaction with a girl you pan to pick up in a night club. A good friend of mine uses “what’s’ up” or if she is holding a drink he will say “what’s that you are drinking?” and whatever she say he will just tease lightly to make her laugh. If the girl laughs, smiles or shies, that’s a sign that you are in (but not all the time).

3. You need to make the girl curious about you.

After the opener you need a plan to convince the girl to stay and find out about you. This is what they call the pick up game attracting a girl. This is how it how to pick up girls at a clubworks: when you approach a girl you’ve never met before in a night club, the girl doesn’t know you. In addition there are a million other things vying for her attention. Think other guys, her friends, the activities in the club etc. Why should she stay and talk to you? The answer is easy. Show her that you are more fun than the other guys and all the other things going on in the club. How do you do that? With you actions, your words and a combination of both. It is essential that you know how to talk to girls in clubs. Whatever you do, just make sure that it is fun for her or that it makes her curious to find out more about you. Preferably both. Specific examples are funny stories, cold reading, using gimmicks like palm reading (if you know how), animated gestures as you speak etc. In particular, know how to flirt with girls. What ever you do at this stage of your interaction with a girl you just met in a club, make sure it elicits an emotion otherwise the girl will walk away to find something interesting. You can learn how to talk to girls in clubs easily. There are a couple of good pdf that you can get your hands on that will teach the best ways to talk to girls in clubs. In fact you can find one here!

4. Rejection is a big part of how to get girls in clubs

If you plan to get girls in clubs, you have to learn how to handle rejection. If you get rejected on first approach, don’t sweat it. Rejection is part of the game of pick up, more so in a night club where you will have girls reject you just to validate themselves. However, one of the advantages of trying to pick up girls in a club is the fact that there is a concentration of a large number of girls available for you to approach. Exploit this numbers to your advantage by approaching as many girls as possible and collect as many phone numbers as you possibly can for a follow up at a later date. Mystery, the world best pick up artist advices that guys should approach between eight and twelve girls in a single night run (assuming of course that you have picked a target rich club).

5. What to do when a girl responds to your approach

 

how to pick up women at a barShe responded! To keep the conversation going where you want to, build rapport first. If you dive into deep right away, she might think you’re a creep or a weirdo. Before asking more personal questions or getting serious, start with small talk. But again, don’t overdo it or she might get bored. Once you break the ice, she will open up to you.

Body language is important. There are different ways to pick up a girl in a night club, but more than what you say, your body language is vital. Body language refers to your tonality or tone of vice, the way you stand as in stand up straight, chest slightly in front, shoulders back and eye contact. There a detailed post on this blog on body language. Check it out if you need to familiarise your self with proper body language that gets you attracted to women.

Don’t approach a girl with the intention of sleeping with her. This will reduce the pressure on you. Always approach women with the intention of having a good time and just socialising. This will increase your chances of making a conversation with a girl in an attractive way. Talk to her, and don’t just babble. Find things you have in common – similar tastes in music or movies, common interests or friends, etc. Get creative. Keep in mind that people are attracted to those who are like themselves.

6. Close the deal as soon as you can.

One of the biggest mistakes that guys make when trying to pick up a girl in a club is that they forget their main objective, which is picking up a woman at ahow to talk to girls in clubs bar. Whenever some guys meet a receptive woman they get into a chatty mode and start talking about things that will not help them in their attempt to pick up a woman at a bar. Unless you think that you have the opportunity of a one night stand, always make sure that you get the girls information as soon as is possible. That way, you can move on to get more girls contact info to follow up during the coming week. The best way to pick up girls in clubs is to treat it as a numbers game. And that is what it is!

As an end note, keep in mind that there are many ways to pick up girls in clubs. The general set up is always the same for an efficient night club game. i.e see a girl you like, approach, open, attract, gain trust, then close. However when it comes to specifics, each guy has his own special move/s, and each girl has her own way of responding to it. But if you want to stay in the game, keep a roster of your own creative ways to pick up girls in clubs. Those unique and creative ways most often do the trick.

How To Pick Up Girls | Pick Up Artist Tips

How to pick up girlsMost guys spend their life missing opportunities to pick up the kind of girls that they would like to spend time with on account of the fact that they lack the necessary skills of a pick up artist and don’t know how to pick up girls naturally. Similarly, there are a great many guys who fail to pick up girls that they will like to be with due to lack of confidence. They make excuses not to approach girls that they will like to meet and therefore continue to miss opportunities to pick up beautiful women on a regular basis.

Are you a guy who has no confidence? Do you miss opportunities to attract girls you are interested in because you don’t have the confidence or the know how to pick up girls? Do you assume that a girl will find you ugly or that she is going to be rude to you if you approach her? True, it can be tricky to convince a girl that you don’t know to like you on first approach. But not if you know the proper way to pick up girls. There are a few things that any man can learn about how to pick girls you like that will make it easy for him to attract girls on first approach. There are guys who know the best way to pick up girls. To these guys the question of how to attract girls is something that they never ask themselves because they have mastered it. Any man can be in that situation, including you. All you have to do is to discover how to attract girls, the best way to pick up girls, then learn and master the techniques. This article is designed to help you learn how to pick up girls!

What’s the best way pick up girls?

Here is a video that hits the spot when it comes what to do the minute you see a girl that you will like to meet:

You may wonder if it is easy to learn how to pick up girls? If you want to study how to become a pick up artist or at least acquire the skills of a pick up artist, the answer is a huge yes! If you have never tried to pick up girls before, don’t worry there are enough information on this blog for a complete newbie to get good at attracting girls. There are many ways you can pick up girls. It doesn’t matter if you are a complete novice at approaching girls or you you’ve tried but still don’t know how to attract girls that appeal to you. Anyone can learn how to pick up girls if you acquire the proper pick up artist techniques that goes with your personality. There are so many easy ways to attract girls it is unbelievable.

A lot of guys are of the opinions that women can only be found at bars and clubs. Forget that! This is not true at all. Women can be found in all kinds of places. Never get trapped into assuming that girls can only be picked up from bars, clubs and parties. The girl you desire can be found anywhere including: bookstores, school or college classes, shopping centres, supermarkets and so on. All you need to do is to always be ready to grab opportunities to pick up girls whenever they become available.

How to pick up girls – The initial encounter

The first step in how to pick up girls is the initial encounter or the approach as it is known by regular pick up artists. This is very important because the girl you are trying to pick up don’t know you yet and as such has nothing to lose by ignoring you if your approach turns out to be a lame duck. There are many ways to do this and you can find excellent examples in any one of the pick up artist books that I recommend as we go along in this post. For the purposes of this article, I am going to employ the “plant and stare” technique which is very effective in any situation where you are stationary.

What some pick up artists call the ‘plant’ and ‘stare’ technique can be a good way to start the initial approach. However, be careful not to look like a creep or a stalker with this one. You do not want to scare the girl away from you. For that reason make sure that you have a friendly smile on you face while doing this one. The idea is to get the girl to notice you and get curious about you. Once you know that the girl has seen you, and you see her looking back at you, wink at her or give her thumbs up or do what ever you need to do to illicit a positive reaction from her such as a smile back or thumbs up.

How to pick up girls – the opener.

As soon as you get a positive reaction, approach the girl and open. In pick up and seduction, to open means to start a conversation. And you can do that by just saying hi or hello in a lively and up beat fashion. You can also use something as direct as “I just saw you standing here and I just had to come and say hello”. If she replies back, start talking. You can start conversation with a girl in any number of ways including commenting about the place you are in, introducing your self, and even a mild compliment.

Watch this video and you will see some good examples of how to pick up girls using an opener:

How to pick up girls – Make her curious about you.

After the opener the next step is to get the conversation rolling in such a way that the girl becomes curious about you and what you have to say. You have to make sure that the topic of conversation is not boring. Stay clear of dynamite subjects like religion, politics and race. It sometimes helps to begin with a topic that has nothing to do with either of you. It doesn’t have to be difficult. Good examples of things to kick off an encounter with a girl you just met are storey telling, picking up something or even people around you and commenting on them. A good pick up artist tip is to carry ready made stories with you at all times that you think will make a girl that you are interested in attracted to you.

If you try this approach when you talk to a girl you like, there is every chance that you will have a fun and a decent conversation. If you want to get more detailed information on how to attract a girl you just met, check out makewomenwantyou by Jason Capital. It is a well written pick up artist book with lots of great information on how to pick up girls that you are attracted to.

In the meantime, here is a slightly advanced video on how make any conversation exiting enough for a girl to stay and hear you out:

How to pick up girls – Be creative

Uniqueness is a great thing to have if you want to master how to pick up girls. If you want to talk to a stunning looking woman, it is highly likely that other guys have already told her how beautiful she is – several times today. Forget the idea of complimenting her for her looks. Whilst she may enjoy it, it won’t necessarily make her interested in you. Instead, compliment her on what she is wearing. Perhaps, on her shoes, purse or clothing. Girls spend a lot of their spare time shopping and making themselves look more attractive. If you compliment a girl on those things that she has invested a lot of time and energy in, she is more likely to appreciate it more than complimenting her on something that she has not spent a minute to cultivate. This will make your conversation with her unique. Always remember that being unique is one of the best ways to pick up girls.

How to pick up girls – Don’t be an interrogator

If you ask the average person what’s the best way to pick up girls, they will likely tell you to be yourself. While this is true to a certain extent, it does not mean that you should be your worst self. It means to be your best self which in turn means to develop the best personality that will allow you to attract girls by being interesting and fun. For that reason, stay away from interview style questions. They are boring and not fun for the girls to answer. Instead, be observant, if the girl that you are trying to pick up is a good talker, then relax, listen to what she has to say and make constructive comments. Take a look at the Scrambler for some great examples of how to talk to a girl you just met. You can check out The Scrambler here!

How to pick up girls – Close as soon as possible.

Notice that the first parts of this article on how to pick up girls does not have any long stories to it. That is because effective pick up does not need long and protracted conversation when you meet a girl for the first time. Why? Because the longer you hang around, the more likely you are to say something that the girl will not like and in the process ruin a perfect pick up. This is more so for those who are not yet developed in the art of attracting girls. So, unless you are a seasoned pick up artist, the best advice is to run a short game, get the girl’s information (phone number, email address) then leave. You can then arrange for a pre planned time with a well prepared game plan that will lead you to something fruitful. You can even run a text game first to solidify the encounter before you meet up with the girl again. A good way to do this is after talking for a few minutes, say something like “I need to find my friends but you seem like a cool person…I’d like to see you again. Give me your phone number / email address so that I can call you later and we can continue this conversation”. Most times, if the girl is single and she likes you she will give you the requested information.

Attracting girls is not nuclear physics and is easy to master. All that needs to be done is to get hold of the right information, study and practice what it contains until you become good at it. There are several good materials out there in the open. One that I particularly like and that can be useful for both newbie and advanced guys looking to learn more about how to pick up girls is Language of Lust.

You can check it out here!

What To Do If You Are Depressed, Overly Passive And Socially Weird

Tyler Durden has been one of the most influential figures in the world of pick up and seduction for the last decade. However, what a lot of people don’t realise is that he is probably the best when it comes to inner game. And let me tell you inner game is the number one factor why a lot of guys don’t have any success when it comes to picking up women. In this video Tyler talks about how to get control of your life and become more successful in the process.

Wake Up For Hardcase Newbies: What To Do If You’re Depressed, Overly Passive, And Socially Weird

“Tyler of (http://www.rsdnation.com) reveals good perspectives on the game if you are more passive, meak, depressed, socially alienated, in your head, and weird …”

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How To Flirt With Women – 3 Good Flirting Tips

How to flirt with women

Men are naturally expected to know how to flirt with a woman who catches their eye. However, this is not always the case. Once they meet a lady who grabs their attention during the day they get cold feet and are unable to flirt with them in any way. Well, if this is you, do not feel intimidated. It is possible to learn how to flirt with women in a short period of time with some good flirting tips.

How can you do this? I am here to assist you. I will give you 3 good flirting tips that will make you a flirting guru and allow you to attract women with ease. These flirting tips will make it much easier for to approach women in public with confidence.

Stop caring about other people’s opinion if you want to know how to flirt with a woman.

Most guys find it hard to approach women during the day since they are afraid of other people’s opinion. The truth is, nobody really cares what you are doing and no one will judge you for making a move on a woman you find attractive. You should overcome your fear of approaching women and make a move on that woman you are eying.

There have been multiple surveys and research carried out through the years in relation to flirting with women. The results show that most people who see a guy about to flirt or approaching a woman secretly wish them to succeed.
Everyone is usually so absorbed in their day to day activities that they do not notice the fact that you are trying to flirt with a woman you like. The few people that do notice you trying to attract a woman by flirting do not even pay attention and do not care about your affairs at all.

Don’t worry too much about how to start a conversation with a woman

Do not waste your precious time trying to figure out how to start a conversation with a woman. Starting conversations with women should not be something to stress over. Here is a tip that always works 99% of the time. Start the conversation by commenting about the situation you are currently in; whether you are in a coffee shop, a bank queue, a grocery store, a mall or any other place. Simply make a comment about your surroundings to start the conversation. Starting conversations with women is as simple as that.

Let us take a look at this scenario for instance. You are getting your morning Starbucks and a tall beautiful girl is standing next you on the line. You can simply start the conversation by asking her what her favorite variety or roast is. This is the easiest way to flirt with women.

If the woman does not respond immediately, don’t take it personally, it is not your fault. Women have a lot of issues to deal with just like men do and they have a specialty of drowning in their own thoughts. To draw her out, you might need to be a little bit more patient. If you want to learn how to flirt with women and how to attract women you have to learn the virtue of patience and persistence as well. Here is a video by a well known pick up artist, Johnny Berba, with a few lessons on how to flirt with women.

Be daring if you want to master how to flirt with women

You can master how to flirt with women if you actually overcome your fear and make a move. The key here is to move past your fear and have the courage to actually talk to a woman. Most guys give in to their fears and never actually learn how to get a woman simply because they never actually master how to talk to a woman due to their inability to take risks by starting conversations with women they desire. This is the wrong attitude. Letting your emotions get in the way will only make you fail.

Learning how to flirt with a woman is like learning anything else. For example, in the field of weight training, the guy that gets the big well-toned muscles is the one who puts in lots of hours of hard work and effort. He does not let laziness or negativity stop him from achieving his goals.

The same principle applies when it comes to learning how to get a woman. You can only get results if you actually DO SOMETHING about it. While most men literally talk themselves out of making a move on a woman, be courageous, after all, you have nothing to lose.

I know this has come as a relief to most of you guys out there. The playing field is in reality much smaller than you picture in your mind. To be more precise, less than one out of ten guys actually take the step of giving in to their desires and discovering how to flirt with women. This means that if you do it, you will be part of the 10% lucky guys out there who have managed to beat the rest in the flirting arena.

Once you start flirting with women, make it something that you do regularly. You will find that your problem shifts from how to flirt with women, to how to find free time in your busy schedule to date women.

Things To Text A Girl To Keep Her Interested

Things to text a girl you like

Believe it or not flirt texting is an important part of attracting women in today’s age of technology. If you haven’t already developed a viable texting strategy for girls that you want to date now is the time to do so. Knowing how to text girls you like can very easily improve your success rate with girls for several reasons. To start with, it will make it easier to connect with a girl that you have only just met. Here is some light hearted but relevant humor on texting girls: Texting Girls and TEXTING GIRLS 101 – COLLEGE COURSE

TEXTING GIRLS 101 – COLLEGE COURSE

“Having a hard time thinking of what to text girls? How to respond? What do you say first? Let me break it down for ya! Share this video here: http://bit.ly/W…”

That video is fun but there are a lot of serious elements to it and best of all it has a lot of really good tips on how to text girls and especially on things to text a girl to keep her interested. Let’s break it down:

1. What if she doesn’t text you back? Video says she don’t like you. In other words move on. There are many fishes in the sea why obsess over one?
2. When is the best time to send her the first text? A girl has tons of guys sending her all kinds of text all the time. What you need to do is be different, be creative and you will be the one with the goods.
3. Don’t confess your undying love after the first date…or anytime for that matter. Keep it simple!
4. Don’t get too sexual too quickly. It is OK to get sexual but only after you are sure that the girl you are texting is into that kind of thing and the only way to find out is to get into it gently.

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How To Text A Girl You Like Examples

How to text a girl you like exampleTexting girls can be an effective way to get a meet or even seduce a girl that you just met…but only if you know the correct way to text a girls you like. According to Tripp of Trippadvice.com the first thing to do is to identify your goal before you start texting a girl. The idea being that if you don’t know what your goal is you are going to end up spending time exchanging text with a girl that leads nowhere. In this video, Tripp advice gives some great examples of how to text a girl you like:

How To Text A Girl You Like (steal these text examples!)

Apart from what to text a girl you just met, there are some other things to learn from this video and here are a few that come to mind:

  1. Don’t wait too long before texting a girl after you got her number because if she is half decent other guys will be interested and giving her their numbers too.
  2. Make sure that you are fun and interesting. Don’t be boring, generic or predictable. You are never going to get the success that you want from women by being any of those things.
  3. Take risks. Have you ever heard the saying “if don’t buy a ticket you are not going to win the lottery. Getting women is exactly the same thing. A lot of guys miss out on grate opportunities to get the girl that they like simply because they procrastinate too much.
  4. Whenever you are texting a girl you like, try not to forget the fundamental rules of texting girls. Firstly, don’t overuse emoticons. Secondly, don’t over text. Thirdly, avoid the temptation to get to know a girl over text. Your goal should always be to use text to get a meet as soon as possible so that you can charm the girls with some proper seduction material.

How To Talk To A Girl For The First Time

Talking to a girl for the first timeTalking to someone you’ve never spoken to before can be a daunting task for anyone. The problem is even more magnified when it is a girl you like and you have never really said a word to her before or worse still you’ve never really met this girl before. That said talking to a girl for the first can be a breeze if you follow a few simple steps. In this post, we are going to breakdown how to talk to a girl for the first time into two separate bought related parts. The first task of talking to a girl for the first time is preparation as outlined in this article:

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How to talk to a girlThe second element when looking at how to talk to a girl for the first time is the actual words that you say to a girl you just met and how you say those words. I have read in a few places that it is not what you say but how you say it. In my opinion both are equally important. To illustrate, here is a good example of how to talk to a girl for the first time:

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How to talk to a shy girl for the first time.

How To Start A Conversation With A Girl You LikeWe all know how hard it is to strike up a conversation with a stranger for the first time. It is even harder with a shy girl unless you know how to talk to a shy girl for the first time. This is because shy girls can look uninterested and aloof when they are talking to a guy that they have never met before. This can make them seem uninteresting and uninterested and unless you know what to do, you are likely to walk away too early simply because you thought that the girl you are talking to isn’t into you. This one article is a good read for anyone who wants learn how to talk to a shy girl for the first time:

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What Do You Talk About With A Girl You Just Met?

How to text girlsAfter you’ve approached a girl that you like and you’ve managed to start a conversation using one of the techniques outline in the previous segments of this posts, your job is not done. You need to do some small talk in order to relax the girl and make her feel that you are the kind of guy she needs to know otherwise you are not going to be able to take things to the next level. Here is what to talk to a girl about when you’ve only just met the girl:

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You see, young grasshopper – if you have trouble starting and keeping a conversation with girls and can therefore never make a girl like you, and you will be destined to live the life of a single hermit forever. We ain’t gonna let that happen!

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